Little Things for God
By Mary Wollney
Light the Candle of Love:
Preparing Our Hearts for Christmas
At this time of year we receive a variety of holiday invitations. Traditional ones come from friends asking us to join them in celebration. Non-traditional invitations come from both society and religion:
· Society invites us to prepare our homes for the holiday.
· Advent invites us to prepare our hearts for Christmas.
We know how to prepare our homes. But just how do we prepare our hearts???
We do it one trying situation at a time. Every time we feel ‘pushed’ we are given an opportunity to change and prepare our heart by sharing love instead of frustration.
Sometimes a visual aid helps: When we are stressed and in a foul frame of mind, that’s when it helps to visualize lighting a candle of love in our hearts.
Candles represent light. When a candle of love is in our heart we feel at peace, which makes it easier to share love. Sharing love is one way to prepare our heart for Christmas.
As we go about our lives it’s easy for our candle of love to either blow out or completely burn out. Someone may cut us off in traffic. Someone may take ‘our’ parking space. Someone may cut in line at the department store. They may utter an unkind word. They may make unreasonable demands. Every day, all day long, life presents us with situations that can cause our candle of love to burn out. Darkness results.
That’s when we need to relight our candle.
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